Why getting Married as a student will harm your Relationship

Getting Married while in school is a factor that is settling deep into the fabrics of our society.
In this article I will be highlighting some major reasons why it is wrong for a student to get married.

A man and a woman should not get married while in school because, during your course of study, you are prone to distractions like getting to school on a regular basis, Reading and sitting for exams, advances by your colleagues and some irresponsible lecturers is inevitable , with that it can damage the fruitfulness of marriage

Students Marriage is not often enjoyable as it's supposed to be when the wife is separated from the husband, the wife is prone to derogatory remarks, subject of ridicule and insults from the lecturers and the students.
This isn't a way to enjoy marriage.

Students Marriage requires too much sacrifice. Imagine a married woman not sleeping comfortably, she is unable to eat and prepare good food for her Husband. There are a lot of sacrifice involved, you have no reason to rush, Finish whatever is depriving you of total freedom so that once you come together you will be together for ever

You are cheating  on yourself when you get married as a student.
You are restricting yourself to certain privileges that are rightfully yours, but which you are not enjoying presently, it simply implies cheating on yourself. you don't need that .
You miss the companion and the perfect Love that is supposed to be enjoyed in marriage will be lost and by that you deprive  yourself of those rights


Your Marriage growth is affected Negatively.
A union is like a baby who need care and proper upbringing and it grows gracefully, When couples are not together in the primary stage of their Union, they have a bad growth and an unstable foundation. I learnt in the scriptures that when you are married your movements should be restricted.
The purpose of that is for the growth of the marriage


The Foundation is not a Solid one.
A Student marriage does not provide the relationship a good start and footing  it requires in the beginning, this is because it does not give an opportunity for the partners to be with each other in the crucial  stages of their relationship.
If the foundation is faulty what can the righteous do?


It may lead to delay in child birth.
Yeah it can cause delay in conception. For a woman who has to go for lectures, wait for bus, stand in the sun for hours e. t. c.  Living by all these daily exercise, conception might be difficult because when she is supposed to be ready for her Husband she is either tired or in school, it is in regard that conception has been so difficult.
A pregnancy is supposed to be properly cared for in the comfort of a home.

 The companion and full love you deserve becomes extinct as a result of your early marriage. You need to understand the world better and be ready for a life time in marriage.. Do not deprive yourself the freedom you desire,so as not to live in bondage in marriage while still being a student.

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