We can also tag this topic: "Saying NO to sex makes you
more "Killing", or "More Valuable", or "More Classical". Etc.
But that's by the way.
(Before you start, this write up is not for lazy people who
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I know many ladies are wondering what does this article
hold or how possible this is, but let me start by letting you
know that this is a "BOYS-THING", so you are not meant to
understand fully, but believe me when I say, as a young
man or should I say "boy" who has many friends, (the good,
bad and handsome), I know things about boys and girls, and
this is something about boys I think ladies don't know...
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And this is it; A "No-To-Sex" Lady is the only type of girl
Guys Respect and Want the most. If I were talking to my
sister, this is truth I will make her understand...
As a guy, as a man, whenever we hear a lady says "NO-to-
sex" in a r-ship, we go 'GAGA' for that lady. I don't mean
lesbians or girls who are forming hard to get, believe me,
guys know all those tricks when ladies are forming "hard-to-
get". I'm talking about single ladies hoping for a good future
husband, or hoping to be appreciated more by their Bfs or
guy friends. Now listen, When a guy hears a pretty and well
endowed lady say "NO-to-sex till marriage", That lady only
stepped up her game, and the first thing that comes to the
guy's mind is "did I hear that correct?", and this is what
attracts us to such ladies. (You mustn't know about this
because no Predator tells his Prey about his plans). To
Reasonable guys with focus and ambition, the feeling ofe
"SHE'S BIGGER THAN WHAT I THOUGHT" starts growing in
the their minds. Mind you, 70% of guys are reasonable, they
are only being greedy. (My Reason): When you portray
yourself as a "Cheap" material, a guy will always want to
take advantage of you, not because he wanted you totally,
but because he sees another girl in you that he can make use
of, maybe for the next couple of months.
Now lemme tell you a short story about a mentor of
mine back then in her University days.
Her name was Susan.
Susan was not the most beautiful lady her University , nor in her
department, but when Susan walks, everyone stops and
looks, When she comes around, everyone wants to know
what she has to say, When she talks to a guy, the world
sees that guy like "Obama" I was treated like one when I followed her to school sometimes back, her composure
makes most guys in the class want to say "Hi" to her,
remember, she wasn't the most beautiful girl in campus, yet
she was the most attractive to all the guys, she was
friendly, She was neat, when I say neat, I mean NEAT, she
dressed very clean and CLASSIC, yet, the guys there were not able to
approach her even for laughter. And why was this? She
created a standard, she had a class, she made it so, and
only the brains and gurus in the class could approach her
for anything casual or crucial. The news alone about the
neatest and highly esteemed susan with a "NO to sex" r-ship
till marriage made her Queen Elizabeth of our dept......
Finally she is now happily married to a guy of her dream, not just a guy but the one every fantastic lady dream of having.
Now, I want to ask you ladies a question, #how many of
you are using an "i-phone 6 now#, Few I guess, but tecno
reaches your hand almost everyday, right?. Now that is
what VALUE has caused. Ladies, its true that "Body No Be
Wood", but that is why oneday, you'll get married. The truth
still remains this way: A Girl is like a Product, you have to
have a Class, Dignity, standard, Self respect, before you can
be Attractive to a GUY OF GREAT AMBITION AND DETERMINED TO SUCCED . Value yourself, and guys will
value you.
.
When you, as a lady regard yourself as someone above "Sex
B4 marriage", you only place yourself above every other girl,
other girls of "Boyfriend today---Fast food tomorrow----sex
next tomorrow". (Believe me, boys are already used to this
type of ladies and are tired of seeing them, they are only
being greedy). You have to stand out from the crowd, beat
the imagination of every guy about ladies and sex.
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You don't have be a "Reverend Sister" to make this happen.
Be beautiful, Dress neatly, look amazing, bold and charming,
you are a young lady I guess, and you'll see that "A Gold fish
has no hiding Place". Look presentable and step up your life
value by saying NO-to-Sex, you'll only make men fall in love
with you the more. When I say "Men", I don't mean small
boys with Big bodies who chase girls because of what's
under the skirts. I mean "MEN", Guys with Focus, Goals and
Ambition, Responsibility. Though Its unfortunate how many
girls of today will throw away "CLASS for SWAG" all in the
name of BIGGER BOYS IN TOWN, in 10 years time, watch
where you'll be with those "Bigger boys in town".
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Now ladies, remember this, It takes a MAGNET to attract
another MAGNET, you CANNOT attract a man of substance
and value when you are VALUELESS. Among 100 girls, you
cannot be ATTRACTIVE, or highly esteemed or regarded by
Guys/Men when you are like every other girl out there,
every other girl they've met before.
.
To be Attractive/highly placed, you have to be different from
others, matured in your dressing, clean and neat, principled,
friendly, and to crown it all, be a VIRTEOUS LADY, (too
classic to be slept with by any man), be ABOVE what others
cannot control..."Premarital Sex". This alone makes you
"Miss Independent", and nothing kills a guy FASTER than
seeing a good-looking woman with Self Esteem and Regard.
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Forget what some boys will say or do when ladies are
around, guys who pretend they don't care when a girl says
"NO" always feel belittled by their actions, and its always
worse when the lady is Good looking or very Presentable.
(your dressing ALWAYS matters). Its just the fact. Guys can
go crazy when they see a girl who thinks her body worth
more than gold, and yes, who wouldn't want to own a
"Valuable Asset", and this alone makes her more attractive,
even without make ups.
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Ladies, to attract that guy or man who you think has a class
beyond you, or is a king, or a "High Standard Gentleman", to
make him fall on his knees wanting you to himself, OR to
find a perfect Relationship where the man will value you totally,
YOU MUST NOT POUT YOUR MOUTH, POUTING MAKES
YOU LOOK "silly"(sorry to say, but this would be a topic for
another day), you should be like Susan, you must be a
VIRTEOUS WOMAN, good looking and principled, you must
be the kind of woman every man wants.
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Now NOTE these 2 things..
1. Being ATTRACTIVE isn't about make-ups, you only look
good with make ups, but when your personality is High, you
become attractive. Guys will only come for you with rubbish
reasons when all you have is Nice MakeUps. Your attraction
catches a man's heart when you have a reputation and ego,
and not your Marykay.
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2. Being a virtuous woman doesn't mean you should start
dressing like -Mary Amaka, or carrying bibles left-and-right,
NO, its not all that.
Being a Virtuous woman means being principled, Neat,
Dressing fashionably, creating a standard, bigger than
"what-any-boy-can-just-have", bigger than Sex, and believe
me, NOT ONLY WILL GUYS GO 'GAGA', EVEN GOD GETS
ATTRACTED TO YOU, And you know what that means!!!.
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Ladies, Make up your minds today, and step up your game,
Re-brand yourself, No guy is worth your body except your
husband, except you want a ---"Time No Dey, Make We Just
Marry" Husband. MAGNET ATTRACTS ONLY MAGNET and
this alone has made you "More attractive",
.
Too all the beautiful African Queens reading this, God bless
you.
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